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DEAR DEIDRE: MY abusive girlfriend says if I report her to the police for being violent, she won’t let me ever see our daughter again.

I’m sure nobody will believe my word over hers, especially as she’s a petite woman and I’m a big, strong bloke.

She’s a pathological liar and a very good actress, so she fools everyone.

I’m 37 and she’s 31. We have a two-year-old daughter who is the light of my life.

My girlfriend hits me, kicks me and throws things.

But if I stand up for myself, she emotionally blackmails me.

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She tells me I’m useless, rubbish in bed and stupid, and screams at me in front of our daughter.

I want to leave but I don’t want to be without my little girl.

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DEIDRE SAYS: Women can be abusers too, and if you tell someone, you will be believed.

Contact the Mankind Initiative, which helps male victims of domestic abuse (, 01823 334244).


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