Two years after miscarriage our amazing sex life has still not recovered

DEAR DEIDRE: TWO years ago we lost our baby through miscarriage and our sex life has never been the same.

My wife and I are 26 and have been married for four years. We had a fantastic sex life and were over the moon when she got pregnant.

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We were devastated when she miscarried late on.

It took a few months for her to recover physically but we have not had sex since.

I have tried breaking the ice many times and found her using her sex toy but she wants nothing to do with me.

She now sleeps in the spare room and I watch porn for satisfaction.

I am so lonely.

I tried talking but got nowhere.

DEIDRE SAYS: It is very sad that the tragic loss of your baby has resulted in loss within your relationship as well.

Your wife may be terrified of becoming pregnant again or else stuck in a stage of grief and unable to move forward.

You and your wife can find support through Petals – the Pregnancy Expectations Trauma And Loss Society – which provides a specialised counselling service (, 0300 688 0068).

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