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DEAR DEIDRE: AFTER swindling me out of thousands of pounds, my wife has gone back to her old boyfriend.<\/p>\n
She swore I was the love of her life, but now I\u2019ve realised she only ever wanted me for my money.<\/p>\n
We\u2019ve been married for five years. I\u2019m 42, she\u2019s 40, and we have a four-year-old son.<\/p>\n
When we met, I was amazed that someone as gorgeous as her wanted to be with an average Joe like me.<\/p>\n
She had not long come out of a relationship with a guy who was five years younger than me and who clearly worked out every day.<\/p>\n
But she told me I was her perfect man and so much kinder and funnier than him.<\/p>\n
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She said she even loved my \u201cdad bod\u201d. Soon after we got together she also suggested a joint bank account and credit cards. <\/p>\n
I saw it as a sign of commitment. But while I have a very good job, she works part-time as a beauty therapist.<\/p>\n
Unbeknown to me, she then started racking up thousands of pounds of debts in my name.<\/p>\n
She also borrowed my car and repeatedly got parking and Congestion Charge fines.<\/p>\n
I didn\u2019t know about these because she intercepted my post and paid them off using my credit card.<\/p>\n
Her lies finally caught up with her when she tried to use my card to book a hotel abroad, and the bank called me to check it wasn\u2019t a fraudulent transaction.<\/p>\n
She admitted that she had been planning a dirty weekend away with her ex.<\/p>\n
She\u2019d originally told me she was going to see her sick mum, while I looked after our son.<\/p>\n
When it all came out, instead of being sorry, she told me she was leaving me. <\/p>\n
I have now lost everything in the divorce \u2014 my house and my son, even the dog.<\/p>\n
On top of that, I\u2019ve heard she\u2019s moving her boyfriend in.
The only thing I got was her debts.<\/p>\n
I\u2019m devastated and feel such a fool.<\/p>\n
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