{"id":87595,"date":"2023-11-15T08:56:28","date_gmt":"2023-11-15T08:56:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/celebritytidings.com\/?p=87595"},"modified":"2023-11-15T08:56:28","modified_gmt":"2023-11-15T08:56:28","slug":"i-hate-the-bad-guy-who-killed-my-dad-i-hope-he-is-as-sad-as-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/celebritytidings.com\/world-news\/i-hate-the-bad-guy-who-killed-my-dad-i-hope-he-is-as-sad-as-me\/","title":{"rendered":"\u2018I hate the bad guy who killed my dad. I hope he is as sad as me\u2019"},"content":{"rendered":"
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The eight-year-old daughter of a man left to die on the footpath outside a Melbourne boxing event says she hates the bad man who killed her dad and hopes he\u2019s as sad as her.<\/p>\n
In a statement read out to the Supreme Court on Friday by the prosecution, Ben Togiai\u2019s daughter, Alyssa, wrote of the sadness she felt waking up without a dad at home and of the unfairness of watching other children attend the park with their fathers.<\/p>\n
She was three at the time of his death.<\/p>\n
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Ben Togiai was shot dead outside Melbourne Pavilion in Kensington.<\/span>Credit: <\/span>Facebook<\/cite><\/p>\n \u201cI think there should be no more guns and knives in the world so [there\u2019s] no other kids like me,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n \u201cI hate the bad guy who killed my dad. I hope he is as sad as me.\u201d<\/p>\n Togiai, 33, had attended a packed public event at the Melbourne Pavilion in Kensington with his work colleagues when he was shot without warning as an innocent bystander as he left the venue with groups of other patrons in March 2019.<\/p>\n The shooter, 31-year-old Abdullah El Nasher, faced court on Friday after a jury found him guilty of murdering Togiai and intentionally causing serious injury to another man who was shot in the leg after tensions between two groups at the event boiled over.<\/p>\n El Nasher appeared emotionless and attempted to avoid the gaze of Togiai\u2019s family while victim impact statements were read to the court.<\/p>\n The court heard that on the night of March 1, 2019, El Nasher attended a boxing match at the Melbourne Pavilion on Racecourse Road in Kensington with friends.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Ruth Togiai and Faatau Togiai, the mother and father of Benjamin Togiai outside the Supreme Court on Friday.<\/span>Credit: <\/span>Paul\u00a0Rovere<\/cite><\/p>\n Mother Ruth Togiai, who attended court in a wheelchair, revealed her granddaughter had been robbed of a life with her father and was left to look at photographs on the wall to help remind her of her father.<\/p>\n \u201cAt the time Ben was murdered I was undergoing chemotherapy for Non-Hodgkin\u2019s lymphoma. Ben lived with us at that time. Every payday he\u2019d bring me home a bunch of flowers and give me a gentle bear hug cuddle. Oh, how I loved his bear hugs,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n \u201cThe night he was murdered, he came home from work and came directly to my bedroom to tell me … his boss Omar had bought tickets for the staff to attend a boxing match that night.<\/p>\n \u201cHe was so excited because he\u2019d never been to a boxing match before. It was our granddaughter\u2019s 13th birthday that day and Ben was a bit upset because he wanted to go to the celebration, but did not want to let his boss Omar down because the tickets were so expensive.\u201d<\/p>\n She said that due to ill health immediately after her son\u2019s funeral, she had to return to the Olivia Newton John cancer centre to undergo further cancer treatment.<\/p>\n \u201cIt was the hardest night of my life. Alone in a hospital bed with harsh chemo running through my body,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n \u201cKnowing … I\u2019d go home … without my precious son. My gentle giant. Life will never be the same.\u201d<\/p>\n Witness Alana Luppi was outside the venue smoking a cigarette when she saw the killing. She said she now equated boxing to gun violence and violent criminals.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Abdullah El Nasher arrives at the Supreme Court of Victoria in Melbourne.<\/span>Credit: <\/span>Paul Jeffers<\/cite><\/p>\n On Friday, El Nasher, a former electrician, also pleaded guilty to being a prohibited person who used and possessed a firearm on the day of the murder, after serving an earlier jail term in NSW.<\/p>\n Crown prosecutor Sara Thomas revealed that on the morning of the murder, El Nasher attended his brother\u2019s smash-repair business at Epping where he produced a firearm while speaking with a neighbour through the fence.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Benjamin Togiai\u2019s family outside the Supreme Court of Victoria in Melbourne.<\/span>Credit: <\/span>AAP<\/cite><\/p>\n Thomas said that while sliding the top off the pistol, El Nasher said: \u201cWhere I come from, this is how we do business.\u201d<\/p>\n In June, a Supreme Court jury found El Nasher guilty of murdering Togiai and intentionally causing serious injury to another man.<\/p>\n The jury found a second shooter \u2013 Osamma Allouche \u2013 not guilty of both charges. Allouche fired only one bullet and it struck the footpath. His lawyer argued he was acting in self-defence when he fired the shot.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n El Nasher supporters leave the court.<\/span>Credit: <\/span>Paul Rovere.<\/cite><\/p>\n Thomas said the prosecution was not seeking a lifetime imprisonment sentence, but submitted the murder was a high-end example of the crime.<\/p>\n Justice Christopher Beale said the shooting of two men in a public place was a terrifying incident for all who were out that night.<\/p>\n He intends to sentence El Nasher at the end of November.<\/p>\n Get the day\u2019s breaking news, entertainment ideas and a long read to enjoy. Sign up to receive our Evening Edition newsletter.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/ul>\n
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